Tad James: But you need to find something to focus on. You need to have some critical thinking to think outside the box.
Adriana James: Something that is still valuable in your life, something that is your purpose, something that is in your direction, don’t give it up, okay I will postpone it but how long? For the rest of your life? No. Still find that direction, that purpose. Why do you want to earn money for the first place? What’s important to you? It’s your life, maybe your lifestyle, maybe your children, maybe your family, your lover, your health, that’s still important. Pursue it. Follow it. Now, how are you gonna do that? Maybe I’ll make a decision, okay, I will step out on my comfort zone, okay okay, I will do it. I get it. I get it. I will step out on my comfort zone. Now, how will I do this? Maybe you don’t know how. Maybe you don’t have strategies. You don’t have new skills. You don’t know that but there is so much information about it and there is so much availability, just learn those skills, just learn about it.
Tad James: Stepping out of the comfort zone is not something that is easy coz even though..
Adriana James: It is outselling your comfort.
Tad James: It is something that is not easy but is something that is necessary. Stepping outside out the current box thinking that you find yourself is something that’s absolutely necessary. You need to develop those skills to think differently and I mean critically in from the ways of the world. You need to be able to look at. You see one of the things I ask myself a lot of times is what will happen if this happens and I ask myself what won’t happen if this happens and then I ask myself if this doesn’t happen and then I ask myself what would happen of this happen. Yah, and those are four questions, you need to develop a series of questions whereby you can think outside of the box that’s currently provided for you because we start thinking outside of the box and apply it for you, you’ll get whatever the box gets and right to this point. Whatever what the box gets sometimes get nothing.
Adriana James: This is the price that you will get. Do you think that this is a good advice? Oh that’s gonna help. Yah, I’m looking for an advice and that’s what I get. Oh that was good.
Tad James: Totally, totally. So what’s the answer?
Adriana James: What’s the answer? First thing make a decision. First thing you need to arrive to a point and make a decision that you need to change something and you need to power back. That is where it begins. That is the first thing you need to do.
Tad James: Now.
Adriana James: Next thing.
Tad James: What’s the second thing? Now that you made that decision what do you do?
Adriana James: You need to acquire.
Tad James: Resources.
Adriana James: You may scrap it that you haven’t used in the past.
Tad James: Because where you are or you are where you are because of the resources that you haven’t had yet. Is that making sense? Where you are because of the resources you haven’t used yet.
Adriana James: And notice where you are lacking. Notice what’s missing. Maybe simple skills in marketing, maybe skills in advertising, I don’t know, it maybe in ourselves. It maybe in your ways of thinking. You can step outside the box.
Tad James: You want to step outside that corporation and go on your own and by the way, I have to say things, it’s much better to work for yourself in these times.
Adriana James: Coz you don’t fire yourself you know.
Tad James: But think of a friend in Australia, she was the highest producing person in that company, now tell me what they’re about to do, they fire because she was the newest.
Adriana James: We called her on the phone to empathize.
Tad James: We called her on the phone. She was on a total processing stage. I know so much about this business, I’m gonna open my own. You know what she said, you cannot fire me.
Adriana James: Maybe, I’m not gonna make so much money as I make in that corporation but it’s gonna be mine.
Tad James: Yeah, nobody can fire you when you work for yourself and we are not saying that you work for yourself, what we are saying is that you should step number 2 is get resources. You need to get resources whatever that means and she already had a lot of resources to get on her own and already working on. She already has resources on her own and try to credit that. She has resources on her own over firm and she’s ready to go.
Adriana James: What you need to acquire is what is lacking and what you need to do is implement the decision you just made.
Tad James: That’s where I got to know hypnosis coz by the way, a hundred of them are no good, crap, I will tell you that in advance but at least there are a hundred of them that are worth reading. It’s the same thing, if you want to be an expert, better read something about something. Read 2 books.
Adriana James: If you want to have a healthy mind at least remember that you have to take care of yourself. You can’t put junk in your body and pretend that is not happening and pretend that it’s okay and pretend that you don’t know this junk and expect to have a healthy mind. Read and be informed. The internet nowadays is a wealth of information. Did you know that the bottle of water, I’m not talking about pesticides; I’m talking about the effect of water, the plastic of the water which mimics the effect of estrogen so men and women in our society are estrogen dominant. You know what estrogen does to you? Makes you placid and moody,
Tad James: Moody? How do you say that?
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